Sunday Express - September 15, 2002

transcription by Andy Haynes

My Gift As A Faith Healer by Chris de Burgh

The millionaire Irish Balladeer reveals a new kind of talent to Paula Kerr. Without warning, Chris De Burgh is on his knees in front of me, his hands a couple of inches from my right ankle. "It's all right", he gestures at the hotel lobby, "We're in a public place." He explains that he is demonstrating his little-known skills as a faith healer. "For 25 years, I've been aware that I can help when people are ill. I can pinpoint where they are hurting without being told and then channel my energy to make them feel better. I just feel it and afterwards, I'm full of strength, really happy I've done this around 100 times. I know I'm setting myself up for a fall by telling you this, but it's the truth," he says He knows he risks being jeered at for revealing his spiritual beliefs, but confirms he treated footballer Markus Babbel, who was suffering from the debilitating Guillain-Barre syndrome. The disease threatened to destroy Babbel's nervous system until De Burgh visited him in a Munich hospital last year and he's now fully recovered. "I'm accused of being sickly, a balladeer," says the Irish singer, "but that 's not the full picture. I'm an entertainer and proud of it. I'm thankful every day that I've been truly blessed with the gift of communication." Whether one believes he has been blessed or cursed, the longevity of his career cannot be denied. He signed his first record deal 28 years ago and has released albums consistently ever since, selling 45 million worldwide to date. His latest album, Timing Is Everything, is out this week. There's a safe and formulaic feel about the new album, though Chris argues: "I wouldn't use those adjectives. I don't write songs because it's easy I believe in pushing myself and I'm still learning as a writer. I write in the classical mould and try to say something in my songs that the average Joe can't." That he is able to write emotive songs at all is to his credit, given what can at best be described as an austere upbringing. Born Christopher Davison in Argentina, where his father, Charles, was posted as a British diplomat, he was sent when he was just six to boarding school in Bray, Co Wicklow, Ireland. When he turned 12, he was moved to Marlborough public school in Wiltshire. His father, meanwhile, began a new career as an hotelier after his father-in-law gave the family the 12th century Bargy Castle, in Co Wexford, to renovate. Chris and older brother Richard, now a commercial lawyer, would return there during school holidays. "When we moved in we had nothing, no furniture, no heating, no running water, no money and it was extremely cold. Richard and I were expected to work, so we would be sent to a well where we'd have to pump water for half an hour just to fill a few buckets." During the few weeks each year that they spent with their parents, the boys received little love. "My father was affectionate to a point but my mother came from a background where hugging just wasn't on. It wasn't her fault. Her own mother died when she was eight and she was brought up by a father who didn't know how to behave with children. My mum learned to hug because I wouldn't stop trying. I had to teach her." When the hotel was refurbished, De Burgh earned his pocket money by entertaining guests. "After dinner, I'd sing Bob Dylan's Blowin' In The Wind and play my guitar It was my first experience of playing to an audience." After securing a degree at Trinity College, Dublin, he adopted his mother's maiden name as a stage moniker and pursued a musician s life, hoping for a break. It took 12 years and 4million of debt before De Burgh claimed his first UK hit in 1982 with Don't Pay The Ferryman. He credits his mother Maeve with instilling him with the determination that would eventually make him a multimillionaire. "She's gentle on the outside but steely inside," he says. "She has terrific stamina. I learned from her that every time you are punched, you wipe off the blood an get up again." More hits followed, but he's still best known for Lady In Red, his "calling card", reportedly a favourite with the late Princess of Wales. He doesn't consider the song a millstone around his, neck. I don't mind singing it over and over I see how it has brought people happiness, and I'm keen to share their happiness by singing it. The song was influenced by his wife of 24 years, Diane, 46. "We were out with a group of friends one night and smiled at each other across a crowded room. I wrote about that moment, though the red dress is incidental." The sentiment is touching and defined De Burgh as a devoted husband and father. But his marriage to Diane has, at times, tested them both. When they tried to start a family, Diane suffered a miscarriage and an ectopic pregnancy but their luck changed and Diane went on to have three healthy babies - Roseanna, now 18, Hubie, 14, and Michael, 11. De Burgh was keen that they should have a loving childhood that didn't mirror his own. "I'm affectionate with my kids. I tell them I love them all the time." He risked their security and his own when he embarked on an affair in 1994 with the children's 19-year-old nanny Maresa Morgan. But De Burgh is not one for regrets. "We all make mistakes from time to time," he says. "I like the person I am today and have become that person because of all that has happened to me." Diane forgave him and they remain together. "I've no doubt that the woman I'm with is my partner for life. I'm extremely fortunate to have met her" Currently living near Dublin, the couple have spent six years renovating a 250-year-old house in Wicklow, which is soon to be their new home. "It's been painstaking but worth it," he says every day I say thank you for all I have and try not to be complacent I'm so lucky to be in this position."